If you listen to only one song today, make sure it’s “Lay Your Hands” by Simon Webbe, because it is fantastic. And if you’re lucky, you could even win it on MixFM this weekend.
So, last night was a friday night, and for the first time in ages I WASN’T too exhausted to get dressed up and haul myself into town for a night on the… err… town. And it was a special occasion (no, not the celebration of Good Friday with the quaffing of sacrements) – one of my oldest friends (by this I mean I’ve known him for ages, not that he is old – Don’t kill me Ben!) was back in KL for the first time in ages (I’ve known this guy since I first started going out – he was there on almost all of my drunken birthdays, including my historic 18th, which I can’t really remember too well, which means it must have been good) so there was the customary welcome back dinner followed by our usual mad evening out. Add to that the fact that our usual water hole has just introduced a cover charge (which means less people, which means more space, more air, and less claustrophobia) and it was almost like we were all back in the good old days.
I remember when I was young, and my parents would always get on my back about wanting to go out – “Why? What’s so good about it?” they’d often ask (along with Cardinal Ximinez, they formed a formidable Spanish Iquisition, which no one expected! – see Python, Monty.). And in those days, I’d often say that everyone else is going, so I want to too. On reflection, this was both damn shallow, and damn profound. Shallow, because I cannot believe I couldn’t think up something a bit more clever to fob them off with, but profound because, at the end of the day, sometimes all you take with you when you get older, are the experiences that you share. Sharing a night out, a great dinner, a fantastic game of whatever it is you play, makes it more real. Sitting there at dinner discussing old times, old flings, old flames, old games and the like, I realised that sometimes you only keep a small bunch of your memories with you, and the others are left with the people you made them with, and the best way to put them all back together is over a nice dinner with a fair ammount of alcoholic lubrication. Sometimes it’s nice to know that little bits of your past are carried around by others, so that you don’t have to obsess about keeping them safe all by yourself. In fact, sometimes the best place to visit, is your past (because god knows, most people already have the baggage packed, and more than enough souvenirs). After all, nowhere is ever the same when you visit a second time.
So, that was my Friday night, and it was good, and if I give thanks for anything this Easter, it will not be for what I have been given, but for the People I have been given the grace of knowing. Because they really made my Friday nights.
And the drinks were good too.
Salut!
WillQ.
P.S. Pictures forthcoming as soon as Danny decides to mail them to me (so, next year maybe…)